Kept For Her
Where male chastity and romance come together
Welcome to Kept For Her, where male chastity and romance come together!  Since October 2004 we have been helping couples on their journey
to a more fulfilling marriage.   A healthy marriage is one of mutual love, affection, trust, intimacy, and desire for one another.  This relationship
is also one of serving one another, giving yourself to the other, trusting and wildly loving one another!  

Male chastity can be one helpful link in a healthy, intimate and romantic marriage (see
Why Chastity).  Keeping your man in chastity can add to
the excitement, intimacy and confidence that he is Kept For You!!  There is a certain bonding that many couples tell us about when the man is
kept in chastity and the relationship begins to focus on areas of mutual interests and enduring qualities and some very quality intimate times
together!!  So ladies, what are you waiting for?  Get your man locked and Kept For You!!

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reluctant to consider
male chastity.

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From S.G. in Germany (April 2014)

Thank you for the quick response. This is one of the reasons why I keep returning to Kept for Her for service, you are always
honest, helpful, and do your best to research and provide the best quality product. Your service is and has always been above
what one would call A++ service.I have done business with Kept for Her for about 10 years.

From Catherine and Mark (February 2014)

My guy and I absolutely love your product.  We have the cb 6000s, and it is just perfect. We got it because, like many of your
users, he was masturbating far too often, and that left little or no desire for mutual play. It was just too easy for him to rip it and
grip it, and that had to stop.

I made it pleasurable for him when I first introduced it to him, which I think helps.  After showering with him, shaving him
(highly recommended, really cuts down the discomfort level of pinched hairs- I got that tip online) and then after I pleasured
him orally I suggested that maybe this might help us keep that sort of fun in our lives...he reluctantly agreed, but that was all I
needed. I put it on him myself, a little ritual that we have maintained.

He wears it all the time now, and has gotten so accustomed to it that he actually does not like to be without it. I think the fact
that I put it on him and take it off myself has made it so he connects the experience of me putting it on him with pleasure.
Whatever the reason, it works. Like some other users, we have introduced panties into the mix as well, but that would not be
essential, I guess. It's been good for us, but different strokes, as they say.

WHY WE LOVE MALE CHASTITY - sent in by a Husband and Wife -

Steve and I (Carrie) have been married for 12 years.  Overall we have had a good marriage.  However, I have caught Steve
masturbating a few times, which really hurt me.  He then confided that he would like to have sex every day or even twice a day
and that I am not fulfilling him sexually.  I'm just not there.  For me, maybe every week or every other week is more than
enough.  We talked about going to a counselor, but don't have the money to do that.

I was surfing the net one night and put in some search terms on marital help.  Among many sites I came across yours.  I was
intrigued.  While I have never even owned a vibrator (now I have several!!!  ;-)  ) I read your Why Chastity page and you
addressed our very issue.  I did not tell him about all of this.

While we were having sex one night I asked if I could measure him for fun while he was erect and then when relaxed and then
figured I needed the CB-6000 Regular based on your sizing chart.  I ordered it with the G3's.  The day it arrived I prepared a
nice meal and called him to make sure he would be home at his regular time.  I put a note on the front door telling him to go
straight to the bathroom.  I met him there and told him to undress.  He had never heard me talk to him that way.  I then told
him to get in the tub.  I had him get cleaned and all shaven.  Then I took him by the hand and had him come into the

There I had him stand in front of me as I admired his manhood.  Then, I showed him the CB-6000 and told him that he would
be getting into this.  He wondered why and I told him that I would now be in charge of our sex lives for the good of the
marriage.  It was some effort as he was getting erect and we were trying different rings, spacers, and pins.  But he got in, together
with the G3.  Then I had another surprise for him.  He was to make sure I was well-taken care of that night.  I had the time of
my life... he was frustrated!!

It has been 3 months now and I can tell you that male chastity has totally changed our relationship!!  He does not force himself
on me sexually, he is more understanding, polite and kind to me.  He kindly does what I ask him and then he knows that when
I am ready, the 6000 will come off.  Even our two daughters see a difference.  Thank you Tom and Susie, for your wonderful
products and web site.


From Steve (Kept for Jenny)

My wife and I recently bought a CB6000 from you, your service as always is simply the best. I asked you to place a note inside it
to my darling wife. The essence of the note was a bible verse  part of which reads    "Likewise the husband does not have
authority over his own body, but the wife does".  Well how wonderfully true that verse is, it gives me a lump in my throat every
time I read it, I also love it. Well Susie did put the note in the package with some nice tissue paper.
I got home on Monday night and she told me she received a note, she was beaming over it so thanks for the personal service.

My wife asked me to put on the device which I did and she then padlocked it and put her key on a gold chain which she wears
all the time.  Now I'm hers , now I cant displease her and I belong to her and love it.  I would be a liar if I said and we all lived
happily ever after, were on a journey and have only just begun. I think she will learn to take on the role of my loving
keyholding wife as time goes by. I also have a lot to learn too and I think there is something so wonderfully nice about be kept
for her.  Next week we will celebrate 32 years of marriage, and one thing I realise is this, life is better when she is in control, it is
what wives do best, care and love.  As for me my motto is this "Loved and kept under wifely authority" and that is how it has
to be in my case.  As I said when I started nobody gives better honest to the core customer service and genuine care than


From Lindsay

We can't believe what a change male chastity has made in our marriage!!!  Tim and I have been married for 17 years and love
one another.  But Tim admitted his obsession with masturbating because I was not attentive to him.  He wanted to change.  We
decided to search the Internet to find how people deal with the problem.  We came across many websites, and some that dealt
with male chastity.  We had never heard of such a thing.  We read many of the things you wrote about on the site.  Some of the
sites were rather vulgar.  We came to yours and even your colors spoke of male (blue) and female (pink), and it is such a clean
site.  Anyway, I later ordered a CB-6000 and the KSD-G3's.  It arrived in 2 days... wow!!  I called Tim at work and told him
that we were going to have a special evening.  When he came home I greeted him and told him to take some time, get a shower,
get shaved and come into the TV room.  When he came in I had the CB-6000 out.  Oh, if I just had a camera to catch the look
on his face.  You see, he did not know I ordered one for him.  So, I told him that I would help him get it on and we did (that
was a little chore seeing that he was a bit, let's say, excited).  The first lockup was for 2 days to make sure he was doing ok.  
Then we went to 5 days.  Now he is in his 11th day.  It is very frustrating for him but he is leaning that I will not tolerate
masturbation.  We will write back to let you know how it is going.  Thank you from a grateful wife... and husband!!   


From Lady Kim

Thank you so much for your wonderful company. I am making my third purchase from you in the last three years. We started
with a CB-6000, but we have found the Birdlocked is much better as I require my husband to be in his device 24/7. It is more
comfortable for him, and much easier to maintain good hygiene. We continue to use your company because of your exceptional
value and customer service. We have had a very strong marriage for 21 years, and infidelity has never been an issue for either
one of us.  But since we have embraced a lifestyle of Feminine Superiority, our relationship has grown even stronger. My
husband is completely devoted to me all day, every day. I am completely satisfied inside and outside the bedroom. Dishes,
vacuuming, laundry-all a thing of the past for me. My husband takes care of all these things, and he's very happy to do it. I have
trained him to no longer ask for orgasms with MY property-I decide when I will allow it-and he submits willingly for his
milkings when I am keeping him in chastity for extended periods. He is a wonderful husband; he understands his place and
mine as his superior. He makes me happy everyday, and we thank you!

Update 6/29/13: Lady Kim and her husband are celebrating their 23rd anniversary. Congratulations to you both!


From Pete (October 12, 2013)

Recently I confessed my desire to my wife that I wanted her to take control of our marriage of 17 years by placing me in
chastity. After a couple of weeks of conversation she decided to place an order for a cb6000s with the kds g3. The package
arrived two days latter and I was immediately put into my new reality. The kds enhancement made wearing my device a bit
more uncomfortable, but impossible for me to break free. After three days of continual wear I began to get used to the device
and the mental stress and excitement if being totally focused on my wife. The results are amazing as I am a better man and
husband to the woman I love. Thank you for assisting my wife in making the right purchase and making her comfortable in a
lifestyle change that has enhanced our relationship.
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